is it that i am taking away her ability to play the victim in her own eyes. Whether or not she is, do I want to be making her angry at all? The immediate fix I see would be to bite again. there is enough potential there for me to do this anyway, so certainly dont want to pursue this. strangely it hurts me to see her hurting, and i haven't really felt this since BD. i tell myself that this is better for her in the long run as well - again regardless of the outcome with the M.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015