TLEE86. Part III

[TLEE86]

Z- I just reread that thread of yours- YEA i can see the similarities. Its interesting that you say you compare it to "teething." I do see alot of similarities in there actions/words. Bottom line, they're not ready to come home

V- Its weird to say this, but I'm not entirely convinced OM is really OM. I think he is an opportunity and a safe place for her to go to because she doesnt want to go home. I think she has feelings for him, but as far as a relationship, i don't know whats really there. If this were to continue, obviously things would probably progress, but I'm starting to believe W when she says there not really doing anything. Idk why. Weird.
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I am seriously considering telling W NOT to come. Heres why.

1. I was making serious progress with her as far as communication, what we talk about, and how she acts when she saw me. She actually said this past weekend, for the first time, i am thinking about if we could reconnect or not, but idk. She was going to decide ON HER OWN, before I left GA to come back to TX on the 25th.

2. I got angry when I saw the FB profile picture of her and OM son. REALLY angry. I gave her an ultimatum. W is CLEARLY not ready.

3. W feels pushed into a corner (i hate to say it, but rightfully so) and is doing something she has said time and time again she is not ready for.

Now she's pissed off like crazy and were not talking until we see each other Saturday to start our drive. I remember what its like after BD when she was prepping to move out when we still lived together- NOT fun. Idk if it will be like that al over again.

Do I tell her Im sorry for rushing her, pushing her into a decision she's not ready for, and tell her its ok, don't come?

Or do i just let it happen, and work through it as best as possible?

Its REALLY hard for me to tell her no. But IDK....