Fair enough criticism - I just get angry when confronted with this on the spot. and post was pretty much on the spot as well. Truth is i DO cycle between blaming her and not.

it does still annoy me that she "chose" this path for us, and apart from anything else I might be left with, I have to cover her tracks. but I also realise that I laid the path.

Originally Posted By: MrBond
They may not be the way that YOU WANT them to be seen, but that doesn't matter.


-thats one reason for my posting, the insight. also venting, support, advice, encouragement.


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