I hucked a waterfall.

[mahhhty]

Turns out no fracture but a bulged disc. Gave me meds and told me to do PT, and Yoga. No more lifting. No kayaking for a week. All do-able.

I was rereading my threads and in the gap between 2 and 3 (this one), I forgot to mention that my business idea is now a legal company, and I am the CEO. With that my second job (moonlighting) has tons of opportunity kicking down the door and a third idea is taking shape. With any luck I'll be leaving my current place of employment by the end of summer.

It is happening!

Now back to this. Mozza and GB really got me thinking yesterday. Perhaps I should be further along, I am definitely still Mr Nice Guy. I see that. Following that up with an article I read (someone in here recommended it) "my girlfriend dumped me" on Mark Manson's website.

"Accept It. It’s over, man. She’s gone. This is the hardest part for me. Even if she comes back, do you really want a girl who rejected you? You should never accept a girl who doubts your potential as a boyfriend. If Eva Longoria doesn’t see my potential, she doesn’t deserve me. If she dumped you for [censored] you need to clean out of your life, then you need to fix them independent of anybody else... If you think about it, we don’t really miss her, we miss the idea of her. We miss a lost wax casting of her; we don’t miss her as much as we miss her effect on us. We miss being with someone who is attractive, smart, funny, and likes us. But guess what? That’s not her anymore. The irony is, if we ever end up with her again, it can only be because we prospered without her."

I think in a way I have plateaued into a world where I treat her like I would like to be treated. However this is skewed as my perception of what I would like is not the current reality. She saw no future with me. It's time I stop pumping the breaks to see if she is coming.

In response to this, I will need to be more proactive and finish the loose ends...

To Do list...
Facebook... Relationship status is single. DONE. I didn't de-friend or block her. She doesn't use facebook at all.
Twitter... She uses a lot. I canceled my account. DONE
Instagram... She uses even more, I stopped following her. DONE
Insurance... Get her off.
Tax returns paperwork... Send it it her.
House Deed... Get her off.
Take the interactions down a notch. They can be cordial, just not pursuing.

Now it's your turn. Any thoughts on items I should be tackling?