Yes, it's not ours to judge, but those behaivours fit.
I see my words in your words. I see my life in your life. It only gets worse when the other party indulges in narc behaviours. They will go a long way to prove thier script and mask right, they do not do it out of self worth and belief they are good but quite the reverse so no one sees them as bad, or sees the real them.
It's about protecting the outward facing mask that covers all the pain and uncertainty. The lack of character depth. Mine will make sure that no one believes the ow was his mistress, his narc image is he is loyal honnest and faithful. None of which is true, to confront that ugly truth even with 2 failled r! It's not going to happen.
H family even willing and knowing according to him, partipate in his r with ow.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26