If W is uncommitted then Tlee you can decide to put your foot down about the OM, WW has to say goodbye completely totally and unequivocally. Expect box of frog behaviour but insist.

I am glad the pic came down from FB, quite rightly so.

WW is angry because she is, for any good reason including the fact she had a hang nail. TLee we need a little of the tough but fair love. Pleasant but straight.

Be your new improved TLee, act as if you are your own hero. You can introduce WW but not do the running for her. it is up to her. If she acts out then look at her "really?"

Actually I like the fact she says she is scared and nervous, it's probably the unvarnished truth. But her issue to handle not yours.

Let her get on with it. Be civil, ordinary and no mind reading.

If we were able to do outside links then I would link you to Shut up and drive. Get a great playlist for your car journey.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 04/16/15 12:00 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW