i have considered this since Monday, last week when it started to resurface and the week before that. and YES i would be lying if I claimed that it wasn't NICE to feel that D is on my "side" (and of course she is). BUT sorry tot disappoint you Mr Bond, but this wasn't it at all.

I am committed to helping smooth things out with my D and her relationship with her Mum. CALMLY it occurred to me last night things I could talk to her about, but it wasn't the time or place. For everyones sake I had to diffuse things and get out, not dwell on it.

I felt in control BECAUSE i didn't have an agenda, which is a new feeling for me and hence noticeable. Arrogance I know very well.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015