She had affair in 2012. We got back together and found the love and friendship we had before. I am not perfect by any means, but I followed all the rules I had learned on how to be the emotioal supportive husband I should be. So yes she had one affair before this. But with this new job and move I had not been the husband I could have been laying a lot of respond ability on her that I should have been doing as the leader of the house.