I'm really sorry for you and the heartbreak you're going through. I'm glad you're posting here, as I think it's good to get advice from vets and people that have dealt with exactly the same thing you're going through.

I'm new to this and finally catching on... but SOOOOO much to learn. I've never been one to listen to other people's drama, always more concerned with myself. With each story I read, I feel so much more empathetic in almost every aspect of my life. One of my 180's is to listen to people and empathize more (Not just my W). I've been finding this site extremely helpful (if not addictive), and sad that this is so common. Before finding DB, I thought I was the only one who was going through what I'm going through.

I really appreciate you detailing your struggles.

M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D