I am hearing all of you... and hearing the same thing from family members that I've spoken with today AND, of all people, my W's therapist! Please don't ask how I got the same advice from her therapist -- I can't reveal that information... But even the therapist is concerned about what is happening and the decisions she is making while she is in this crisis mode.

There are some other things going on as well that I can't go into right now -- but along the same lines: very poor decisions being made as a result of this crisis and the breakdown she is having this week (cycling again combined what we all believe to be pressure from the OW)... There may be some tough conversations tonight so please keep me in your prayers -- I need strength and for God to give me all of the right words to say in order to defend my stance on some things.

What doesn't kill me will only make me stronger...

Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015