Mahhhty, Solid point about having to lie to someone. I understood my agreement with OM's W that I wouldn't tell my W first. I fully intend to tell my W the truth if she asks me about it however. And I'm pretty sure she will no matter what story OM's W tells OM.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15