Hi Toots I hope your ok and having a great day. I was reflecting today on a few things and you came to mind a couple of times. My job involves me chatting to a lot of people The telephone calls are often short but I am able to draw people out of themselves and I really enjoy the interaction . today I was dealing with a lady in Warrington We were talking about 7 plts of dye and the lady told me that the office was closing early due to a death in the owners family We got chatting about life and it's fragility and I mentioned that you had to enjoy each day and take it as it comes We joked about my zen like thoughts and I told her that I had a friend in the uk going through a seperation with her H (TOOTS ) and how strong she was and took the time to help others The lady on the phone said I was lucky to know someone with such strength as it can be very rare to find , the lady then asked if you were a childhood friend as I spoke so warmly of you.
Toots , you are amazing , I stick to a few posters on here a I try to offer support to those in a similar sitch or who have shown an interest in mine. It's very rare that I post or even read on a sitch where you have not been posting As you know I have a few great friends on this site ( and a couple of potential hot dates) and I intend to single them all out at some stage
Thank you Toots. I feel I have become a decent father and man and you have supported me the whole way Your kind words have lifted me when I've be down , your suggestions and advice have guided me when I was lost and your constant support and prompt posting has kept me going when I feel all hope is gone
I follow your sitch daily and often feel your way to good for your H but I do understand it's your H and you love him Your strength facing your BD was and is amazing. If their is such a thing as Karma then Toots is in for a fantastic future , you are a model of DBing and life will be good to you
Thanks again so much for the kindness and support. You are a special person and im always going to remember Toots as term for kindness and strength.
