Alpha Step At A Time #5

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Thanks Drew.

On a different note...

Had a missed call from W, so called her back a short while ago.

Expecting the usual child related call, in fact she wanted to know what I was doing with the concert tickets I mentioned the other day. I said I didn't know, hadn't thought about it. She offered to buy them from me. Not wanting to make a spur of the moment decision I said let me think about it. She got a little stroppy and said 'forget about it, it doesn't matter' and couldn't really get off the phone quick enough.

I will have a think about it. Being honest, first thoughts were I'd like to go with her and who she may want to go with etc. None of that mentioned in call. Reflecting a few minutes later, if she wants the tickets I will sell them to her. I need the money. She wants the tickets. I remembered I have no control over the who/what/where/why in her life. I'm trying to detach.

It just shows though that little things that you think get lost in the 'noise' are being thought about. It's the first time the tickets have been mentioned by her in about 9 weeks. That's something to think about regarding 180s, behavioural changes, GAL activities etc.