Her response, the next day (today)

Good Morning,

I appreciate the e-mail.I know how hard it is to put into words what you're feeling. Thank you for the explanation so I can better understand where you're at. I think it will help in the long run. Like I've said earlier, it hurts more, but we're not doing each other any favors by not being 100% honest. I'm going to try and keep this short...

Please know that I don't put all the blame on you for our demise. It takes 2 for everything. We are both at fault and I will own my part in all of this. Yes, the kids are going to be okay, but this is not going to be easy on them. D4 especially. I will leave the house Wednesday and give you your 2 weeks with the kids. However, I think we need to sit down with them on Wednesday afternoon/evening and give them some kind of explanation. I will be attending their sporting events during those 2 weeks, however I will be respectful of your time with them outside of soccer and I may pop into dance class for a much needed hug. I need you to know that I have not and will not speak ill of you around the kids and I will never, ever use them as leverage.

I will not use our joint account for any personal purchases. I did open a Wells Fargo account (omitted for relevance)

I guess that's all. You don't have to respond. Probably better if you don't. I think we're on the same page for today. I hope you have a good hitch.

Oh, I found out yesterday S6 has his Kindergarten Music concert tomorrow. I'll send you some pictures/video of it.

-W

I hate how civil and calm througout this whole thing.She has been kind and mostly forthcoming. When I return home, I will be doing a lot of GALing and spending time with the kids.

I'm just wondering if I overplayed my hand. I have no expectations, but, I'm wondering if this is just her using her guile to keep me attached and is cake eating. I'm certain she has been cake eating in the past. We live in a nice home on a lake and even own a rental home together (along with sever other assets/toys--jetskis, atv's, boats). I have always been a good provider and loving father, despite being gone half the year. I'm so confused right now.


M: 8 years, together 9
M: 41 W: 32
D 4, S 6
ILYBINILWY 2/10/15
2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home
4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread
4/19/15 W asked for D