I did good practicing my STFU last night. W was ranting about older kids never talking to her lately or letting her know what they are up to. I think it bothers her that they talk to me more lately because I am more involved with them. W's only focus right now is job and herself. I just listened and validated her feelings. I kept my mouth shut.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"