I've been reading on other threads how it is best not to even think of your WAH as your H. I get why, but I struggle with that. Even though I'm leading a pretty full and happy life without him, I still think of him as my H. But I accept the point. He has had a whole R with someone else in the past year.....so he may very well not see himself as my H at all. Am I just struggling to accept reality? IDK....
I'm with you there, Toots. I find it particularly difficult to know whether or not to tell H about possible big decisions. Like if I decided to up and move to Tanzania permanently say But I think this is a byproduct of DBing. Without it I think we'd be more inclined to accept that it's done and move on. I fear DBing once very separated (like we are) prolongs the process and keeps us holding on.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
But I think this is a byproduct of DBing. Without it I think we'd be more inclined to accept that it's done and move on. I fear DBing once very separated (like we are) prolongs the process and keeps us holding on.
