Wayward Wife and the Way of LRT

[Defacto]

Mr. Bond,
I know, I know but small victories.

To answer your question, I have taken the past few months to take stock of where I and out relationship went off course.

I realized that I can be argumentative and when I argue, I did it to win. I realized that I wasn't always super supportive with my W's career aspirations. I realized I wasn't helpful with the day to day housework. I realized that I spent all of my free time with our family but none cultivating our M. I realized I was neglectful of my W's basic needs to feel loved, valued, and cherished. I realized that I had lost interest in pursuits that I valued and made me attractive to W.

I know the worst could be still to come...