Just know you are not alone out there.

I get why you are being the MUCH bigger person by agreeing to move out but I suggest if you do move out that you use that as leverage for the entire settlement.

You and your W though not legally married were acting as a common law couple. The reason she was able to do so well financially and have 3 kids is in part because of your support as a W. You have contributed to her success - don't let that be cast aside.

I know how hurtful this is, stay strong & happy.

Enjoy your kids smile

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13