Shining, He's still deep into the mlc tunnel and the comments he has said about dating, etc., are very typical mlc lingo. They think that the divorce decree is going to make things all better once the signatures are on the dotted line. It doesn't work that way and he's going to find out that life isn't going to be wonderful w/unicorns and fairies dancing all around sprinkling happiness dust. But, that's his happiness illusion to figure out.
You, on the other hand, have been living in the real world and will be just fine because you are dealing w/things head on.
Continue to live your life and make sure you do it to the fullest. You might be broke financially right now...but I can assure you, you will rise from the ashes and be more financially secure than your h in a year or so.
Shining, you are going to be just fine, please do not doubt that.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
