She provides nothing for me and I provide nothing for her. She will not take any steps toward rebuilding trust and I don't know if I should ask for them again.
NO, you should not. Boundaries re-stated are boundaries weakened. She already knows your position. If she ever wants to re-commit to the marriage and asks you what it would take, then you can re-state your conditions.
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I keep saying that I am ready to move on with my life as me/dad.
