Look up covert narc, 23 signs. That's almost on point. Like the introverted cousin of the flamboyant one I associated with 'narc'

Oh well. It's enough to say that my STBX has some extremely unsavory parts of his character and I can't be with him again.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.