Yes, we share the villification from the one person we trusted in or lives (our partners). The incredible display's of no empathy are astonishing. My WW actually said "I am tired of you giving me your grief, how long is this going to take." I had nothing to say to that.
As for now, I have hired a L and will let it play out. I don't talk or email unless it's about kids stuff.
No, I am not the same nor will I ever be, maybe I am stronger now, that is what I hope. I strive to be the best mom I can be and the best person I can be. I hold my head high and ignore what I can. I too hate the cheerleaders who encourage the affair calling it brave and the "right thing to do".
I agree, I don't know who my Partner is anymore, I have had enough pain for a lifetime. I just want this to be over at this point. I am nervous because the WW answers my L letter Friday. That will give me some indidication of which way I will move forward.
Please pray for me and my family and I will do the same for you.
Thank you so much for your kind and supportive words. I really needed to hear them at this time.
