The love bombing and good times keeps you playing the odds for the poker machine pay off ( someone else's description whom I forgot to credit them with).
We get addicted and the pay off get further out, but we know it's coming so we keep playing the odds. Trauma bonding also makes the bond stonger thus harder to let go.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26