I'm sorry if my post sounded cavalier as I don't want to minimize what you feel. It's okay to feel anger-I think most of us feel a pang or two even when we are further out because it does seem unfathomable that the person we trusted is behaving the way they are. It's baffling.
Sorry -mini hijack. I watched a great deal of the immediate fallout play out on Twitter. No, I could not stay away from the train wreck even though peeps here asked why I was watching. Why? I was incredulous that the man I had 3 kids with was taking about how horribly abusive I was while his gf posted about my vajayjay and that if he had pulled out 12 years ago, then he wouldn't have been in this sitch. I'm sorry to be graphic , but trust me, much more graphic stuff was posted. And his new 20 something friends coddled him and told him how brave he was. Meanwhile, even though I was such a wretch, he had no problem leaving his 3 children for me to raise for 90% of the time. A recent could have been slap in the face? I sent him something my s5 said and he texted back that "everyone at work laughed hysterically at my text and said I sounded really funny." These were the same people who declared me publicly an "evil b!tch." I was incredulous for a moment and then shrugged. I don't know these people and I don't know him now either.
What do you do? You realize they aren't the same and that is difficult. Do they ever return? As you read here, they do and they are different. Just like you will always forever changed as a result of this. You are strong, determined and a loving mother. Let your W deal with her car wreck. It's on her.
You are doing great:-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
