[BrightFuture]

So, H didn’t show up at the friend’s house. Not sure why. I was quite sure he would be there, because another guy friend who called me to let me know about the party, told me to bring my dog, so H could see him. This friend told me that he heard from H that he misses the dog. Oh, well.

So, here is the second part of that day (after golf tournament, at the town.) I and my GF arrived at the bar/restaurant where everybody was meeting. Everybody was already there. H was there, talking with my mutual friend (male). We said hi to everybody, and I went to greet my female mutual friend. She had her 2 ½ son on the chair next to her. When he saw me, he lit up and wanted me to hold him. He was so excited to see me. Some people were surprised. I’ve heard some “wow!”s.

That crazy woman (H’s drunk buddy who was taking pictures in her bra with everyone) was also there. She made a move towards me again and said how happy she was to see me. WTF again! So, my friend’s kid kind of saved me from her, because he was in my arms, giving me hugs and putting his head on my shoulder. So, I was kind of busy, as you can tell…

Well, I looked great in my leggings and red blouse! So, I had a lot of attention from the guys. My so called “boyfriend” was hanging around, giving the compliments and trying to be funny. I didn’t pay for a single drink. A few guys wanted to buy me one. And for my GF.

At one point, I was next to H. My GF went on the other side of the bar. She asked me to hold her purse for a second, so she could get another chair, or something. So, H was so kind to pass her purse and my jacket in between us. He was trying to make a joke, but I honestly didn’t get it. At this time I took a good look at him. He did not look good. I don’t know what it was, but at that moment I felt sorry for him. It must have been not very pleasant to see the xW (me) getting all the attention from other guys. I don’t even know why he stayed there.

This crazy woman was lingering close by for a while and I overheard some conversation between her and H. Now, some of this is my guessing, because I didn’t hear the whole conversation, but my intuition kicked in. I bet she asked him about our split. His words were that “oh well, it was a bad situation at the time”. And then I heard him saying “But, I’m still a Mr. Bright (his and my last name.) He repeated it twice.

He tried to make more jokes, but they didn’t come out right. I think at this point he doesn’t even know how to be around me. I didn’t give him much attention, I was busy talking to other people.

Then most of the people went for a walk. It was a tequila festival in town as well. I and my two GFs (one who lives there) stayed at the bar for a little longer and then went for a walk too.

Overall, I think I overshadowed H over the weekend. I probably kind of spoiled it for him, LOL. I was at the party next day and he wasn’t. I bet he couldn't take it anymore. I think all the guys (friends of friends) knew how we were related. One of the guys (married) gave me a compliment at the party, saying that I was a very nice person and H was a fool.