Hello Bob. Yes I was emotionally abusive to my wife when I was overly angry. I did not forgive her for her hurting me so many years ago and let it grow into resentment. a horrible thing to have hiding inside you and used to hurt the one you love the most. I have really been trying to learn how to forgive fully, completely, from the soul. I do not want that hidden inside of my like a bomb waiting to go off. And thank you for your advice and I also wish you well.