Rysin, complex all of us we will be absolutely just fine with or without our wives. your post above hit the nail on the head. We hold onto what our wives were not what they have become. I feel we are held back until you realise that. Took me a while to get to that state.

Feeling pretty final myself. I see no way back for my marriage. I do still wonder if it's possible but it would such a monumental task to undo the damage done.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on