i clearly need more time to think about this but as i realistically only have a few spare minutes here and there until i am in W/M/BD central - i am going with calmly LISTEN and filter what she says through a SHE'S NOT WRONG, THIS IS HOW *SHE* FEELS filter.
and of course i'll try and get out of there ASAP, not hang around until a fight breaks out.
reasonable?
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015