Dude, you are OBSESSING over her. HOW long have you been here? HOW many people have posted to you, HOW many total posts of advice?
Alpha, I'll be honest, I find myself posting to you less because 99% of your posts are just obsessing over how to act around your wife. You're . . . stuck. You're never going to make progress until you detach, it's pretty much Step #1 and you haven't even accomplished it yet.
Yes, you've gotten better -- even MUCH better -- at your interactions with her, but that's a minor, "tactical" thing compared to the big, over-arching mindset and goal of DETACHMENT.
I honestly don't know what to even tell you anymore.
