A wise man once told me, "If you're explaining, you're losing."

Lots of mindreading here.

You can't change what you did. What's done is done. Bringing it up only adds to its perceived significance.

Let it lie. If it comes up, and ONLY if it comes up, shrug it off.

"Oh that? I was just messing around."

She knows it's not on there anymore.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.