As Cadet mentioned when you joined, I am sorry you are here but you will get some great advice. The folks on this forum truly care and try to assist.
Your subject caught my attention because my wife of 13 1/2 yrs has a very hardened heart. She filed for D 5 months ago. I was hurting her emotionally and did not realize it, of course.
Please do your best to back off and give her a little space. Also, try to take things 1 day at a time. I have my ups/downs, but doing so does help.
By the way, I see MrBond asked if you have read DB or DR. His advice is always solid!
Regards,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
