A question:

I just spoke with a lawyer.

I have the opportunity to file a motion for conciliation, in other words it'd be court appointed marriage counseling.

Strictly from a DB/DR point of view, it seems like this would not be a good move, although it is true to what I want.

Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34
D8, S5, D2
T:16, M:9
BD + D: 4/3/2015
EA Confirmed 5/6/2015
Separation under the same roof