Toots: Great insight and questions. I understand your feelings about what I did to my W. My intent is that whether I get my W back or not I will never do this to anyone else. I have been in weekly counseling since January working on myself. I know many of the reasons why I did what I did including rejection and affection issues as a child. That being said it does not excuse my behavior and if my W leaves Me I will continue to love her and respect her the best I can understanding my actions caused her to disconnect and to find OM. Lastly, I hit bottom last fall when I watched her disconnect and I lost my best friend. It really got my attention and I started to make major changes but it was late in the game. I didn't find out about the OM until mid January.
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9
