Hi Burger, glad things went well with dinner. Well done there with the self-restraint. My idea about suggesting dinner is - don't suggest dinner.

Extend no invitations. If your W invites you to something, check your schedule and maybe accept if you are not busy. If you are busy, take a rain check.

You can respond to her pursuit, but don't pursue yourself.

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus