Last night she left and didn't come to the house until almost 8:00 a.m. I got my son off to school without her.
We had to go to friend of the court today for a 45 minute class the judge puts on that discusses well being of the children, next steps, etc. The no cohabitation order, etc.
On the way back, we got into a discussion about the divorce agreement and S7's needs for the future. She told me to focus on someone who has kids, because he wants a bigger family. I agreed and said that S7 had been begging to have more interaction with family, especially at holidays and STBXW wouldn't allow it. She said that it just isn't her. She wants as few people as possible.
The STBXW then proceeded to tell me that she knows she's a bad mother. That she's broken and that's part of the reason she's giving me physical custody (plus she wants him to grow up on the lake). That she knows she can't do it (be mom full time). The more she tried, the more unhappy she got, the angrier she became. That she can do either thing with a balance or she's miserable. She's viewing her parent time in the decree vs. her spending time chasing other things as a balance. Stupid sad.
I did tell her I know. That I tried sooo hard to meet her demands... it was just never enough.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.
