We are in similar circumstances. I hardened my W's heart over 18 years and drove her to a OM. We are on the brink, she says she is going to file and move out. Read my posting under Newcomers. MY STORY IS UGLY.
Keep doing what you are doing. Pull wayyyy back!
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9
