Since pulling back, GAL'ing, detaching, following Sandi's rules and being back in the house with her for the last 10 days things have been peaceful, respectful, and the family time has felt fairly normal. My W remains hard toward me, but communication being initiated by her is up a little. Seeing plenty of signs that she is with OM or at a minimum going places that she is trying to hide, She has not said anything new about D or about moving out but I know both are still looming. Any other advice or suggestions?
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9