Good idea - you are right - I don't need her approval.

The question came up because we are/were a same sex couple and the boy scouts has been a little behind the times with regards to their viewes on gay boy scouts and gay leadership. So, that was why I "asked her opinion". But overall, you are right, I don't need her permission. I am in. I also co parent our D6's Daisy Girl Scout Troop bi weekly. My daughter has a blast and it is good to spend special time with her and her troop.

One other question Cadet

Been at this 7 months. How does one measure progress? Is it progress measured within oneself? I honestly don't know if what I am doing is making any difference - to me yes, I feel better - more independent, more focused on ME, to our relationship - no, I don't detect any change(s).

Just musing to myself and I am betting the Board will say progress is measured by how I am feeling and doing. Am I getting on with things and moving forward. So as usual, I think I have answered my own question (s).

Correct assumption?


Was made a better person by DB'ers