I just still have a hard time understanding how he meets all his goals that he stated that he wanted and now it's not what he wanted in the first place.
You are making some huge assumptions, like that he KNOWS what he is doing.
He is in a FOG and just trying to stay alive right now.
Yes he is likely to make some more bad decisions coiming up in the future.
You can not control them, and he needs to learn for himself.
