GB- Sometimes I think we must be long lost sisters....except that I'm 5"10 with no backside and big boobs...so guess not.
You know - in addition to all of our other similarities - I too have a history of relationships with boy men. They've all been gainfully employed - but there has definitely been a pattern of not wanting to take on extra responsibility and completely "growing up". I used to think it was just because I found that boyishness charming and engaging - but now I wonder. Much like you, I'm not a vulnerable person. Am I scared to share myself and my life with someone who is more of an equal (and that sounds judgy - but I think you know what I mean). I guess I should think on that one for a while.
Oh - and my D3 seems intent on flashing my bra to the entire world. So far this month, she's pulled by top down at the church Easter buffet and in front of the whole softball team.
I hope your MIL feels better soon. I can relate there as well. I've actually gotten a lot closer to MIL since this all started - and it broke my heart to hear her sadly say "You know - we didn't raise him this way". That must be a tough pill to swallow.
