I respond by saying that I just want her to be happy no matter what path she takes. I also validate W by saying that I think it's great that she has found her own voice through all of this.
W responds by saying she is confused by my approach through all of this.
I don't have experience in this kind of situation, but it sounds like you did very well. With that being said, if you can with strength, confidence, grace and respect give her a Mr Bond Truth Dart. I think that would be well advised. Try not to be a doormat for her.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015