I am reading DB right now. I also see that my wife is displaying a lot of the characteristics of a WW. Before it was very confusing seeing everything she was doing but until now I just couldn't put any of the dots together. It's difficult seeing her being so selfish but now at least I have a pretty good idea on how to behave around her. Unfortunately we live in a very rural area so we do not have many choices on counselors. We have not met with the one we recently got in contact with. My biggest concern is what I should discuss with the counselor when she is present.