Pyrite: Eye of the storm?

[Pyrite]

But you don't get a lot of slack. She's looking with a MICROSCOPE for any sign that everything you're doing is an act to try to control her in some way. The moment she sees any sign of your old mission statement (which is your current mission statement until you CHANGE it, which is why what you're doing here is SO IMPORTANT) she will ignore everything else and focus on that.

do you really think so? I don't think she really cares anymore. I think there was once a time when she was possibly looking for the opposite. i.e. to see how long I could go without being controlling. I think now she has made her move and their is no looking back as far as she is concerned.

but you're right - i'm doing it again. talking about her. OK switch.

My best man called for a chat. He ran into a girl from our past (~24 years ago). Good old times they were
Anyway, I mentioned someplace here that 1 thing I am seriously considering is sailing. I was intending on just sailing small (~10ft) boats by myself. I mentioned this to my friend as we have chartered a bigger boat before and sailed around tropical islands for a week. He has done it a number of times. He is keen to charter bigger boats and sail around locally on day trips, just for the sailing. Also, i organised staying a weekend for me and the girls at his ski lodge.

i'm picking up my little girl from kinder tomorrow and spending the evening with her. She has been distressed the last few days. She misses me, even though it was end of my week only 36 hrs ago. I have to organise where we can go that would be least intrusive to he schedule. i.e. she's prepared to go back home rather than stay with me. I am happy for her to stay with me - but W already resents me for Daddy's girl's Daddy. Apart from making her life hell that is.

I also have to plan tomorrow nights handover. I think I will borrow your suggestion about Email communication Zeus. Although, I have said this to her before I can almost guarantee that I included my own agenda. e.g. I am not able to communicate effectively ATM "because you have destroyed my life"