thanks for your instruction. it is very good advice.
venting: she actually berated me a 2nd time about paying too much attention to the girls. She said after her Mum visited, she reported that the girls were very happy with me, and while the youngest was sleeping I played constantly wit the older one, painting, drawing etc. Can you stop this please?
WTF - i know, i know, she is not making any sense because of where she is, and i need to step up, realise this, and not let these things get to me.
I wish we could email only. she admitted she doesn't read my emails because she doesn't understand them. i sent an email about custody/ relocation proposal to her a month ago, CC: our mediator, my sister, my mum read it before i sent. Everyone is clear. She doesn't understand. in this case she just deleted it. In the past when this happens, she doesn't unerstand - so she calls me.i try to explain for a while and then lose patience with her.
i might be better now with the patience bit after all the good advice here, time since BD, and now DR which i am looking forward to reading more tonight.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015