Pyrite: Eye of the storm?

[Zues126]

Py- do you see that every time you make a concession about your own behavior, you follow it with a comment about your W?

I am angry...BUT her best interest isn't the children
I am controlling- to a degree...BUT blah blah blah 4 times as much about W's treatment of you.

Is separating her behavior from yours and just focusing on yours too complicated? Do you not believe it's important? Or is it just too painful and difficult and you just can't help yourself?

My last post took an hour and covers a lot of ground. I am giving you credit for being very MOTIVATED and ASTUTE. I would really like to see you drop your W's behavior, your pain, and the wrongs that have been or are being done to you. You are creating your own HELL. And if you can't get past that growth will be very difficult, as will your chance at a good R in the future.