Pyrite: Eye of the storm?

[Pyrite]

she didn't say that this time - but she has said it before.

thanks for your constructive criticism. I will try and apply this next time we talk.

you are right Mr Bond - i am angry that the situation is not just going my way, and I dont want to give you more ammunition - but her agenda is NOT in the children best interests at all.

She wants to sell the house to move on - yes - and that is understandable. But she wants to move an hour+ away from all of our friends, family, the kids kinda and creche - for one reason. Her new job. Misguided but in her position TM understandable.

So far all the compromising in so far as anything, including this issue, has been on my side. you are right though that I should just listen and try to compromise based on that, NOT pull back immediately to what i want. And you are being unfair about my controlling personality - it is true to a degree - but as I have said before there have been many issues where I was just shut down. I had NO say in raising my babies. We would even watch baby sleeping videos together and I would ask to try that. Absolutely no. In all circles, family, friends, etc - everyone has commented that no one does things this way. Anyway, I imagine that it is true that this was another reason I resented her, because I couldn't control this either. I wanted it to free up time for us, but that is beside the point i guess.