Pyrite: Eye of the storm?

[MrBond]

"Thanks Heart. I understand this completely. But for some reason Mr Bond seems to think that I don't."

Because your own words show that you haven't. I and the other vets have been here long enough to recognize when someone is just going through the motions and when they're actually changing and applying DBing principles correctly.

Zeus is doing it correctly.

"I acknowledge that I have helped to give this impression by talking about what she did, but I thought for the most part I have put this in to the context that it is intended. Obviously I haven't"

That is correct because you consistently contradict yourself. It's like two children pointing fingers at each other assigning blame. You admit to what you claim was "your fault", and then you quickly turn around and say, "but she did this".

The fact that I actually talked to you about using the word "but" and how it negates the sincerity of what you say before that in a phrase. And then you came back with a rebuttal shows that you haven't learned.

The list is a good place to start and is what is explained in the book to do.