Pyrite: Eye of the storm?

[Pyrite]

-Post your destructive behaviors in your M
-Don't mention your W's behaviors AT ALL. Just yours, and how you impacted her.

OK - OK I have to collate this list. I haven't listed them as they have been all wrapt up under one banner

Please dont get the impression that I am avoiding self-growth.

Thank-you for the lessons. I can appreciate your comment about NOT having the lessons Vs the M. I posted earlier that I have realised things about myself in this short time that will (hopefully) make me a much better person and the most important thing in my life - a better father. I can see my girls when they are teenagers benefiting from (hopefully) growth in this period. And to be honest, I would NOT be even thinking about this without having been kicked so hard emotionally and stripped bare.

Edit: I think I posted this here. I have said it before in my head anyway. I mean when my girls are teenagers and finding themselves etc. To be able to guide them from a "wiser" position than that which I was in before.