My A's varied from one nighters to a year or more. Usually just a few months.
I looked to A's for several reasons, none of which were right. I was insecure, intimacy, rejection issues and love issues from when I was a child.
No excuses though.
I did not want counseling regularly until she disconnected and I lost my best friend. Go figure that now I'm the one in weekly counseling and she is not. The tables are turned and she's involved and looks like she's on her way out. I know I deserve it but I would still like to save it if there was anyway I could. I'll keep changing regardless.


SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014
ILYBNILWY JAN 2105
OM JAN 2015
W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015
Dbing April 2015
H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9