IF I had've walked 2 years ago - she could be posting as the LBS. Would you be grilling her about what did YOU do?
Yes, if roles were reversed people on this forum would be asking her about her contributions. You are here, so you are the one being asked the tough questions. She likely has work to do as well. She's not here though. Nothing you do will change her or make her put in the work. She will have to decide to do that on her own. Focus on YOU and your contributions to the M. They are they only thing you can control. It's worth putting in the effort even if you don't decide to fight for the M. It will make you a better partner for whoever you are with in the future.
Me: 30 H: 35 M: 5 years S2 Signs of MLC started Feb 2014 BD - PA July 2014 Piecing/reconciling late July 2014
